Let's assume, you have already posted your profile in some International marriage agency. Many agencies have the practice to arrange big gatherings for their clients from all over the world and the Russian women contained into their database. An agency sends you an invitation letter or informs you by the phone about the date and place where the event will be held. Though such meetings can possibly change your life and become the beginning of a love story, you should not have any big expectations to avoid a great disappointment afterwards. At the same time you have to know some basic rules, which may help you in your endeavor.

Nataliya from St. Petersburg shares her own experience with those of you who plan to attend such meetings in the future. (Nataliya met her future husband at one of these gatherings. Now she is happily married and live in the U.S.)

1. Before attending the event, tell yourself that you are going to have fun first. Enjoy the nice atmosphere, free champagne and dancing. Let practicing your English (German, French, etc.) and flirting with the men be your priorities! In that case you will not be very disappointed if you don't meet anyone, whom you like.

2. Some girls prefer to go to these gatherings by themselves. As for me, I don't feel comfortable when I am alone out there. If, within first fifteen minutes, nobody came to you, you will probably feel discouraged and your expression will reflect your feelings. At the same time, don't go with three or more girls, or at least, don't stick to each other. Many men will be embarrassed to approach such a big company.

3. Many girls prefer to be dressed up in bright colors to attract men's attention. I was in a black suit and now is happily married. In reality, it matters not what do you put on but how do you act. Be yourself. If somebody likes you for who you are, this is the beginning of a Happy end.

4. Do not smile to everyone. Maybe it is not very polite, but if you do not want to speak to a person, you will just waist his and your own time. If somebody starts a conversation with you and you realize that you don't want to continue, excuse yourself and leave. Do not say that you will be back, otherwise he will be waiting for you.

5. Answer questions sincerely. Do not make him to like you. Do not try to show him how nice you are. If he is a smart guy, he will notice it himself.

6. While communicating afterwards, pay attention to every detail and make certain conclusions. You do not have time to make a mistake. Define for yourself what is good in him and what is not. Try to imagine your future family with him. Do you think you could marry him? Is he kind? Is he sincere? Note, that even if he spends a lot of money for you now, it does not mean that he will be the same after your wedding.

7. Consider that he may suggest you to go to his hotel room, what will you do? My future husband said, that we "needed to fill out some paperwork for a Fiancée visa." I did not believed and refused. But he insisted. He promised "no sex". There was only one way to check, what he is really after, so I decided to go. We went to his hotel room. He gave me a beautiful roses and we filled out the papers. No sex!!! He was a real gentlemen and I appreciated this. He showed a big respect and it was very important to me.

8. Then I decided to check if he was greedy. He asked me for a date. I worked that day. I said that if I would not go to work I will lose money. He asked how much and paid me off. He gave me more that I told him but I only took a sum what I mentioned. I did not want him to think that I used him.

9. He stayed two days longer than supposed. I appreciated that too. When he said that he was going to see my parents, I decided that he was a right man for me.

10. And don't forget: if you don't speak foreign language well, you will learn it from your future husband. But you have to be able to maintain a simple conversation at least.